Imagine a giant, super heavy iron door. If the strongest man in the world comes and tries to push it, will he manage to open it? Maybe not. He'll sweat, turn red, and the door won't even budge. But then a little boy comes along, takes a tiny key out of his pocket, puts it in the lock, and... CLICK! The door opens super easily.
The Bible says Wisdom is that little key. Sometimes we want to solve things by fighting or shouting (using force), but God wants us to use intelligence and prayer. Whoever thinks before acting beats the giant without even trying hard!